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		<title>By: Freelancedom &#187; Blog Archive &#187; What I Learned About Running a Business from Tabatha Coffey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Freelancedom &#187; Blog Archive &#187; What I Learned About Running a Business from Tabatha Coffey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 21:37:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] being said, the customer isn&#8217;t always right. If you have a problem client, drop [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Freelancedom &#187; Blog Archive &#187; A Gig That&#8217;s Worth Your Time</title>
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		<dc:creator>Freelancedom &#187; Blog Archive &#187; A Gig That&#8217;s Worth Your Time</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 16:23:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Step Up or Stand Down?   Pass it [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Cognitive Connection July 24 &#171; a.k.a writer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cognitive Connection July 24 &#171; a.k.a writer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 10:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Steph Auteri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steph Auteri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 19:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for all your comments, guys (and welcome new readers)! It&#039;s so frustrating to have to swallow your losses -- and your pride -- when it comes to problem clients. Especially when you never saw it coming. But Sharon&#039;s right. Once we get going, we can pick and choose the best clients and the best projects, and that&#039;s part of why I love freelancing so much! Fingers crossed that we don&#039;t have to deal with the duds too often.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for all your comments, guys (and welcome new readers)! It&#8217;s so frustrating to have to swallow your losses &#8212; and your pride &#8212; when it comes to problem clients. Especially when you never saw it coming. But Sharon&#8217;s right. Once we get going, we can pick and choose the best clients and the best projects, and that&#8217;s part of why I love freelancing so much! Fingers crossed that we don&#8217;t have to deal with the duds too often.</p>
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		<title>By: Sharon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 23:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Part of the beauty of being in your own business is having the freedom to choose the clients you work for.  Hopefully they are people who value and respect you.  I may give them the benefit of the doubt if they treat me disrespectfully once, but if it happens too many times, it is a sign, and life is too short, too precious to take this kind of abuse!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Part of the beauty of being in your own business is having the freedom to choose the clients you work for.  Hopefully they are people who value and respect you.  I may give them the benefit of the doubt if they treat me disrespectfully once, but if it happens too many times, it is a sign, and life is too short, too precious to take this kind of abuse!</p>
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		<title>By: Joe Wallace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe Wallace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 02:38:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I once ate almost $2K on a project for a MAJOR client. AS in, you&#039;d recognize the name instantly and wonder how things got to that point. Unfortunately I was caught between a client and a third party and I actually took the loss because I knew I could stand on principle and get paid, but I&#039;d alienate my third party to the point where we&#039;d never work together again in all likelihood. 

In the end, I got much more work from the third party than the 2K, but it was still a bad situation to be placed in and I&#039;ve sworn NEVER AGAIN. Next time, feet go in the fire. Not mine...but hindsight is always 20/20, eh? 

PS-first time reader here, GREAT blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I once ate almost $2K on a project for a MAJOR client. AS in, you&#8217;d recognize the name instantly and wonder how things got to that point. Unfortunately I was caught between a client and a third party and I actually took the loss because I knew I could stand on principle and get paid, but I&#8217;d alienate my third party to the point where we&#8217;d never work together again in all likelihood. </p>
<p>In the end, I got much more work from the third party than the 2K, but it was still a bad situation to be placed in and I&#8217;ve sworn NEVER AGAIN. Next time, feet go in the fire. Not mine&#8230;but hindsight is always 20/20, eh? </p>
<p>PS-first time reader here, GREAT blog.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan Johnston</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan Johnston</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 19:08:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hate to admit this, but I sometimes sit down and take it. I know I need to assert myself and leave if that doesn&#039;t work, but I&#039;m not someone who&#039;s comfortable with confrontation. 

Last year I had a client who flat out refused to pay me for work already completed. I tried to assert myself, but it got ugly, so eventually I just backed down and agreed that if he took down the copy I&#039;d written, I wouldn&#039;t take him to small claim&#039;s court. Part of me wishes I&#039;d dragged him to court but another part knows it wasn&#039;t worth my time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate to admit this, but I sometimes sit down and take it. I know I need to assert myself and leave if that doesn&#8217;t work, but I&#8217;m not someone who&#8217;s comfortable with confrontation. </p>
<p>Last year I had a client who flat out refused to pay me for work already completed. I tried to assert myself, but it got ugly, so eventually I just backed down and agreed that if he took down the copy I&#8217;d written, I wouldn&#8217;t take him to small claim&#8217;s court. Part of me wishes I&#8217;d dragged him to court but another part knows it wasn&#8217;t worth my time.</p>
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