Two months ago, I found out I was pregnant, and I immediately burst into tears.
They were happy tears, because my husband and I had been trying for the past three and a half years. Not only that, but we’d been about to try a third round of IUI. Talk about dodging a bullet. That whole process is a pain in the ass.
After the at-home test was confirmed by blood work and an ultrasound, I transitioned smoothly into Crazy Neurotic Person Who Worries About Everything:
Will I break the baby with coffee?
Will I break the baby with yoga?
Will I break the baby because I keep tossing and turning in bed?
Holy crap I forgot I’m not supposed to eat soft cheeses. Did I break the baby?
(My OB/GYN assures me that, unless I smoke crack, the baby should be fine. This is why I love her.)
Then — after going through a phase in which I wondered if the baby was actually just a food baby from too many spinach balls — I decided to preemptively worry about how my identity as a sex writer might affect my child. Here are just the first seven things that popped into my head: [Read more…]